We will help you to meet delicious girls at our Ukrainian introductions agency to strike against a real Ukraine lady to be your dream girl and ideal bride. Brides from Ukraine are engaging and delightful, but not all of them are so and not all of them but only one is suitable for you to create a happy family for the rest of life. Men from the whole Europe and all over the globe want to create families with them and look for dating Ukrainian brides via numerous dating sites, depots and forums in internet. We want to offer to your attention an article about Ukrainian brides who are seeking foreign men for marriage, to compare them with foreign and first of all with western women and to give you some advice on how to meet a right lady from Ukraine to be happy in marriage.
This psychological article teaches fiance and fiancee how to find, appreciate and understand each other. When you meet someone special the very first time you think that he or she can be your destiny for life but it’s all connected with the past… Where is he, the perfect prince, a woman’s unique person? He will sing songs, give flowers and catch stars from the sky. It seems the Ukrainian woman is ready to wait for him during the lifetime. Meanwhile the real and good foreign men are passing by…
However, a standard happiness is possible with a simple average American man from Ohio. It doesn’t mean that a Ukrainian woman should marry any occasional foreigner without looking at his appearance, habits and shortcomings. A high level of requirements is programmed in some beautiful Ukrainian women souls: choosing a partner for a marriage a Ukrainian woman chooses a future father of her future kids. It means that the man must be healthy, wealthy, active and reliable partner in life for her and their kids. Any pretty Ukrainian woman values a man with these parameters intuitively, without learning his medical card and reference from his working place. Sometimes the valuing a candidate takes a lot of time, sometimes it is enough to have a little conversation with him during some short hours.
Some pretty Ukrainian women appreciate the foreign grooms during more periods. It usually takes them from some months to some years, and at that time, the women try to educate their future foreign husbands. They introduce their suppositional husbands to their relatives, children and friends. They try to test their choice! They can be fastidious and often grumble that the foreigner could guess that the roses are more preferable than carnations. Or, she was sad but he didn’t notice it!
All these moments seem simple caprices and the men can’t understand them. Really, these nice Ukrainian women behave themselves in this way because they wish to know if the gentleman is ready for some sacrifices for her. These pretty Ukrainian women… wish to detect the level of the man’s love. Will he be near to her in spite of nothing? They are programmed in such a way and the program works for choosing. But sometimes there are cases when no one partner doesn’t suit her. Nobody has the necessary kit of values. All of them are full of shortcomings, which are incompatible with the marriage. And if the marriage is international one, the problem is bigger.
The fastidious Ukrainian brides – is it reality ?
There are no normal men anymore! They affirm this thought from time to time. But the psychologists say that the women’s program gets a mistake and the causes of this error can be different. May be some of these Ukrainian brides have a star disease? It is unnecessary to be a queen of beauty or to have a good attachment. The star disease appears in childhood when the girl is too much loved by the parents, relatives and friends. She often heard that she is the most beautiful and clever. Her relatives persuade the little child that there are many people in the world who aren’t dignified for her attention Absolutely! Or almost all of them are zero for her! Such a girl takes the courtships graciously but never allows her boyfriend to her heart closely… And at the end she takes a decision: “No, it’s impossible to stand his shortcomings! I worth something better!” and she goes on seeking her ideal.
So, the men who woo the most beautiful and smart girls should remember about fastidious brides who may be found also in Ukraine. Most of our ladies are not so touchy and choosy like brides described above. Most of them are realistic women who can forgive a lot their loving men if they show respect and sincereappreciation to them. We want even talk about modest Ukrainian brides who are not selfish and even shy in relationships with men as they may have a so called low self esteem of themselves. And we want to talk about it in our next chapter.
A low self-esteem of some of Ukrainian brides.
Sometimes there are the right opposite methods of education can lead to the same negative result. A girl who hadn’t learnt to love herself can feel fear from the relationships with men. All her life she is afraid that her boyfriend can leave her. She constantly thinks that her boyfriend can deceive her or her man’s love may be stopped one day. It is very hart and painful to be fallen out of love with the sweetheart. Therefore her unconscious produces a defending mechanism search of different shortcomings in her expected partner. As soon as the woman begins to feel the affection to her partner, the fear to be left by him starts working, activates the mechanism and makes to secure herself.
“I can’t be happy with the man who…” and she tears the relations. Such behavior is seldom among young Ukrainian girls and mature Ukrainian women almost never behave this way if they love the man. The try to create a comfortable and loving atmosphere for him to keep his love and to keep the family.
An offense typical for western women is not usual for Ukrainian brides.
Some day she got bad luck in relationships with the man. Possibly, it was her father. Possibly, she doesn’t remember the content of the quarrels but she will remember one thing; it could be said by her mother or grandmother that the all men are crazy. In this case, the girl can be grown up in a rather wrong way from the very beginning. The girl can be grown up primordially in tune against men. Already at the moment of dating, she keeps an eye on not good merits but on bad ones. She’ll never say: “Such a good fellow!” or “I simply lost my head because of his enchantment!” She is wittingly and constantly in sceptical mood.
Sometimes it happens she gets married with all her pretensions, she gives birth and after that she begins to find faults with her husband forcing him to get away. And when he gets away she is triumphing over this and says that she mustn’t count on men indeed! Sometimes the first failed romance or painful parting can make keeping overpriced demands for life. What would do a Ukrainian woman or bride in this situation. Of course she would suffer a lot but she will not get indifferent or cruel to men and especially to her beloved. A Ukrainian woman does her best to avoid conflicts in marriage and in relationships. They are not rancorous or vindictive to their men, as they understand that their happines depends on them too.
An ecstatic character.
The most people humble with the fact, that earlier or later the first phase of the romantic relationships goes by. The domestic problems, misunderstandings and vapidity come in. The spouses find peculiar amenities in the daily routine. But, people with an ecstatic character need a constant celebration. Girls of this type just physically can’t stay near the person who bored them: each world, each gesture irritates. As a rule they usually don’t think that it is their personal issue. They begin to look for a partner again and every time delight changes into claim. Many single foreign men claim that their women and wives did so. But this problem is not so great in Ukraine, where women can understand their husbands who don’t drink a lot, can support family and stay devoted to them. Looking for a future grooms many pretty Ukrainian brides pay attention not only to man’s attitude to them as women but also to their attitude to marriage and family. If a man’s attitude is positive he has great chances to marry a Ukrainian bride… and be happy with her all his life enjoying her tenderness, love and care in everything.
A younger brother.
Yes, sometimes it is obviously his fault. An elder daughter in the family is engaged to look after her younger brother. So, she assimilates on her subconscious level that it is always necessary to look after the boy, straighten him and to teach him constantly. She begins to see at the men like a teacher of primary school. She gets educative affections, manners, behaviour, voice and even look. Especially that fact that she was punished together with the younger brother in childhood, it still irritates her. For example, “the elder sister” can separate with the man because of his scattered socks or other things.
I will be happy anyway with my beloved!
However, it is not very important when and where the aspiration to get a MR PERFECTION comes from. The most important thing is to understand that there is nothing perfect in the world. A woman who wants to find a good husband and to have a happy family life should close her eyes on his shortcomings, and she have to learn to see his good manners and behavior. It is better to see his shortcomings in the ironical way. Choosing a husband a woman should remember about his positive features and about his love. Any married Ukrainian woman should remember that day, which lets thinking positively about her husband. She should think of those sounds, feelings, smells and dreams. They are like exercises of neurolinguistic programming that acts unfailingly. Her partner will always inherent and desirable.
Find the excuse.
Usually if a person does something good, we perceive it like something normal but if he or she does something wrong we pay attention on it. Why do we pay our attention at the mistakes? Why can’t we calmly react at the wrong behaviour? Are we perfectionists? We should try to explain bad actions connecting with some unfavourable confluence of the circumstances. We must admire of the good actions of the sweetheart!
Open bids are useful.
Open bids are useful because they help us to understand each other better. Usually people get on with each other well if the correlation of positive and negative features of the character equal about five to one. Moreover, the correlation of the complaints is supposed to be with the same number. Shortly to say, you should praise your partner about five times a day and only one time a day to abuse. But it’ll be better not to abuse your Ukrainian wife at all if you want to be treaten like her dearest sweetheart.
You should praise and admire your partner even if he or she doesn’t deserve it! A woman should say to her man that he is handsome, brave, kind and generous and he will get these qualities! The most of men know about their shortcomings and have nothing against rebukes. Most of men like to develop and to improve their private qualities. They are always ready to change for the sake of the favourite woman and at any age. So any woman should create her ideal man with the own hands.
